Week 1

In regards to competent communicators there are many people who come to mind. However, for the purposes of this blog I believe that my pastor would be the best person to use an example. Pastor Darrel "BJ" Gibson is not only a pastor, he is also a member of the Scotland County School Board. Because he carries various titles, the way in which BJ communicates varies depending upon the targeted audience, purpose, and setting.

During morning worship, BJ delivers his message by providing a topic and a scripture that his message derives from. In addition, he will use additional scriptures to provide validity to his message. During his message, BJ preaches with enthusiasm, while also utilizing a serious tone or demeanor. Depending upon the message, he may some time have to tell a story that may make us laugh, but it relates to the message. As a member of the School Board, I can imagine that BJ's demeanor is serious and that he speaks utilizing factual information that will be beneficial to the success of students. Because BJ graduated from elementary, middle, and high school in Scotland County, I'm sure that he is able to refer to his experiences as a student to better justify his point. A interesting and key trait of BJ, is that he is able to impact the the youth and young adults, as well as those who are over 35 years of age. My pastor is only 23 years old, but he possess the wisdom and maturity of someone twice his age. When BJ speaks you have no choice but to listen! 

I would model communications after BJ because he knows how to communicate effectively. BJ knows which type of behavior to display based upon the setting and intended audience. In addition, BJ knows how to empathize, comfort, and encourage others.